Doing it for themselves.

Author: Ari Karpel
Date: June-July 2012
From: The Advocate(Issue 1059)
Publisher: Equal Entertainment, LLC dba Equalpride
Document Type: Article
Length: 2,013 words
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WHEN PEOPLE HEAR THE SHONDES for the first time, they're often struck by the Brooklyn-based punk band's driving, Pat Benatar-reminiscent sound, and the violin, expertly wielded by one of the gender-tweaking foursome.

And then there's the name: the Shondes. Shonde rhymes with Rhonda, and it's a Yiddish term meaning disgrace.

That can leave some music fans scratching their heads. "People mispronounce the name and ask us what it means, but that's par for the course," says drummer Temim Fruchter. "We chose a name that's in a language very few people speak."

Their name might require some translation, but their hooks need no such interpretation. All four band members--bassist Louisa Rachel Solomon, violinist and trans man Elijah Oberman, Fruchter, and guitarist Fureigh--are Jewish, each with a different degree of religious observance. (Fruchter grew up Orthodox.) They're all queer to varying degrees too. Fruchter explains, "We're all queer-identified, but we're certainly not a lesbian band," she says. "I don't know what a 'pansexual band' is," she says, citing the label often applied to the Shondes. "But you don't have control over what people perceive about you."

So Fruchter and her band mates take the adoration they've gotten from regional LGBT press across the country for what it is: "Wonderful."

"It's a good way for people in all parts of the queer community to connect to us," she explains of the inevitability of being labeled that comes with media coverage. "It's just a fine dance between being pigeonholed and misidentified and getting [celebrated by] niche outlets. Our identities are a part of what we all bring to the table. It's there, but it's not the point."

Fruchter's sentiment seems to capture the feeling of many musicians in the current surge of--excuse the blanket term--lesbian bands. Perhaps a bit more musically diverse than lesbian bands that came before such as, most recently, Tegan and Sara, Gossip, and Sleater-Kinney, they each have a deep ambivalence about being called "lesbian musicians."

And yet they'd all have it no other way.

"We don't mind being called a lesbian band," says Jenn Alva, the bassist for the San Antonio-based indie rockers Girl in a Coma, who have been together for 12 years. "I mean, two thirds of us are gay." Anyway, if people have a problem with that, she says, "they just don't have to be our fans."

Alva, who with Phanie Diaz makes up those two thirds (Diaz's sister and third band mate Nina is straight), is happy to be lumped together with other lesbian bands like Gossip. "As long as it's not crappy pop music," she snaps.

If anything, the trio's cross to bear is, as with the Shondes, their name. "It's something that we did a long time ago," she says of the moniker, which references "Girlfriend in a Coma," a 1987 song by the Smiths. "I don't necessarily think we'd ever take it back because we still love...

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Karpel, Ari. "Doing it for themselves." The Advocate, no. 1059, June-July 2012, pp. 71+. link.gale.com/apps/doc/A432025148/AONE?u=gale&sid=bookmark-AONE. Accessed 19 May 2026.
  

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